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Jan 4, 2022Liked by William H Bestermann Jr MD

Bill, you are a true survivor! Let’s see how strong your heart is tomorrow. Ok?

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Looking forward to it.

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Jan 4, 2022Liked by William H Bestermann Jr MD

Thank you for this personal account of the trauma you lived with in your childhood years and how it affected you in later life. I, too, lived in secret abuse as a child. I became a teacher for 35 years, filled with a desire to improve the lives of children. I also was diagnosed with major depressive disorder. Now I want to go back and read The Prince of Tides at your recommendation. Your frankness is necessary and extremely helpful.

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Reading provides more depth, but if you have not seen the movie, please watch it and recommend it. Adults who were not abused as kids have no idea what it is like. The movie is visceral. It helps the non-abused feel what abuse is like from the eyes of a child. I have run into many in the helping professions who share this background, but even so, most of them are unaware. It is always great to hear from you.

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Jan 4, 2022Liked by William H Bestermann Jr MD

You are an amazing man and a fantastic physician. I’m so sorry for what you had to go through, but you make a difference every day.

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Thank you Bekki. You are a great friend and I appreciate you.

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You rose above your circumstances. That is an awesome testimony to others like you! My grand daughter too! She has risen above as well. Making straight A's and making good choices in life. It can be done!

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Yep! Another strong survivor! Thank Jesus Christ! God bless her!

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